When it comes to texting girls, most guys make a lot of bad mistakes.
In this article, you are going to discover all about about how to flirt through texting and using call back humor to text girls.
The worst part is, these are simple mistakes that could easily be avoid. As a matter of fact, I can think of 3 major bone-head mistakes that most guys (including you) are probably making all the time.
Let's go through them and discuss each one in detail. Pay close attention and try to spot times in your life where you might be guilty of these mistakes.
OK, here we go...
Text Game Mistake #1: Texting Her Too Often Without A Reply
You should never send a girl multiple text messages without her first replying back to your original message. The only exception is when your first message did not get delivered and your phone gives you an error message.
Barring that, this is an important rule that you should always follow.
Why is this so important?
Because not doing so only communicate to her that you are needy and desperate. Just like so many of the lovable losers that she'd interacted with in the past.
Girls HATE needy guys!
It lowers your value and gives her power over you. The more you keep texting her without her replying, the more it becomes apparent that she is the prize and you are just begging to talk to her.
Hey, you two only just met. Don't make her think that she is already your future wife.
Text Game Mistake #2: Being Boring
The first text message to a girl you just met is the most important text you will ever send her. The first message you send will be the one that cause her to decide whether or not to reply back. It's almost like an advertisement.
Here's the typical first message a lot of guys uses:
"Hi, this is John from the club last night. I just wanted to say Hi, and that I really enjoy meeting you...blah blah blah."
Don't do that! It doesn't pull her in and make her want to text back.
Here is a sad truth that you must understand...
You Are NOT Special To Her!
OK, that was a little harsh. Sorry about that.
Girls give their numbers out a lot. So sending some vanilla text message is not going to make her remember you. And if she doesn't remember you, she won't reply!
A better way would be to say something that will get her back into that head space that she was in when she met you. Something like...
"Wow, do you remember that fight last night? I'm still laughing my ass off. - Henry"
Or...
"Wow. Now I know who you look like"
Girls always care when you mention something about their looks, so this statement will get her attention.
Also, by bring up something funny or interesting that happened last night, you not only remind her who you are but also pull her back to the emotional state that she was in when she met you (and having fun.) This is a very powerful technique and very important for building attraction (more on this in other articles.)
Text Game Mistake #3: Being Too Formal
You are trying to maintain a playful mood. So don't send her messages like...
"Dear Stacey, I'm really glad we had a chance to talk last night and I had a very pleasant time..."
Instead, talk to her like you two are already friends. Think of how you would talk to your own friend. Would you tease them and crack jokes if they did something stupid?. This might not work as well on foreign women because of the language issue.
Instead of the usual, you could say something like...
"Hey! Man, I think I just had the weirdest day of my life. Yours must be pretty crazy, i bet."
The tone that you use will set the frame for every one of your interactions.
If you think none of this apply to you, watch out. You don't want to be like all the other guys out there who...
Screw up their chances with the girl that they like.
Don't make the same mistakes. The pitfalls that I've mentioned might sound simple but by avoid them, you can double or triple your chances with a girl.
In this article, you are going to discover all about about how to flirt through texting and using call back humor to text girls.
The worst part is, these are simple mistakes that could easily be avoid. As a matter of fact, I can think of 3 major bone-head mistakes that most guys (including you) are probably making all the time.
Let's go through them and discuss each one in detail. Pay close attention and try to spot times in your life where you might be guilty of these mistakes.
OK, here we go...
Text Game Mistake #1: Texting Her Too Often Without A Reply
You should never send a girl multiple text messages without her first replying back to your original message. The only exception is when your first message did not get delivered and your phone gives you an error message.
Barring that, this is an important rule that you should always follow.
Why is this so important?
Because not doing so only communicate to her that you are needy and desperate. Just like so many of the lovable losers that she'd interacted with in the past.
Girls HATE needy guys!
It lowers your value and gives her power over you. The more you keep texting her without her replying, the more it becomes apparent that she is the prize and you are just begging to talk to her.
Hey, you two only just met. Don't make her think that she is already your future wife.
Text Game Mistake #2: Being Boring
The first text message to a girl you just met is the most important text you will ever send her. The first message you send will be the one that cause her to decide whether or not to reply back. It's almost like an advertisement.
Here's the typical first message a lot of guys uses:
"Hi, this is John from the club last night. I just wanted to say Hi, and that I really enjoy meeting you...blah blah blah."
Don't do that! It doesn't pull her in and make her want to text back.
Here is a sad truth that you must understand...
You Are NOT Special To Her!
OK, that was a little harsh. Sorry about that.
Girls give their numbers out a lot. So sending some vanilla text message is not going to make her remember you. And if she doesn't remember you, she won't reply!
A better way would be to say something that will get her back into that head space that she was in when she met you. Something like...
"Wow, do you remember that fight last night? I'm still laughing my ass off. - Henry"
Or...
"Wow. Now I know who you look like"
Girls always care when you mention something about their looks, so this statement will get her attention.
Also, by bring up something funny or interesting that happened last night, you not only remind her who you are but also pull her back to the emotional state that she was in when she met you (and having fun.) This is a very powerful technique and very important for building attraction (more on this in other articles.)
Text Game Mistake #3: Being Too Formal
You are trying to maintain a playful mood. So don't send her messages like...
"Dear Stacey, I'm really glad we had a chance to talk last night and I had a very pleasant time..."
Instead, talk to her like you two are already friends. Think of how you would talk to your own friend. Would you tease them and crack jokes if they did something stupid?. This might not work as well on foreign women because of the language issue.
Instead of the usual, you could say something like...
"Hey! Man, I think I just had the weirdest day of my life. Yours must be pretty crazy, i bet."
The tone that you use will set the frame for every one of your interactions.
If you think none of this apply to you, watch out. You don't want to be like all the other guys out there who...
Screw up their chances with the girl that they like.
Don't make the same mistakes. The pitfalls that I've mentioned might sound simple but by avoid them, you can double or triple your chances with a girl.
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